Monthly Archives: May 2023

Many of the people here in the US do not understand how fortunate they are to be in this country. My face flush with hate when I hear them complain about small inconveniences and pain. Let's talk about pain a little more. No one likes to be in pain, but our reaction towards pain is in our control. It's the 5th vital sign but it's the only parameter that is subjective among the five. Even if we put numbers to measure it, we get different levels on the same type of pain on different people. I noticed that people here…

The more efficient way to live life is to live it with intent, to live it the way you specifically wanted it. Acknowledge that people--especially those who are around you, your friends or loved-ones, may have their own opinions, but their opinions should not hinder you from standing for your own. By all means follow your way, it'll make you feel better. And if at some point you noticed that "yours" did not work, take full responsibility and learn from it. Experience pays better than trepidation. They may follow you if they want to, but for you, the easier path…

We tell ourselves stories. These stories, whatever they may be, are something we perceive as truth--our truth. And when someone tries to convince us otherwise--their truth, we see them as fools. This is the reason why presenting a change is hard, it creates tension, it disrupts our belief system. Rather than opposing against the original truth, present the change as a different truth. A story we can easily tell to ourselves.