Asking questions can be a strength.
I came from a country where "not knowing" is frowned upon but you're kind-of worshipped if you've known something that others don't--same concept applies to tenured employees and "just because" politicians. As I become more aware and less pretentious (lol), I find the culture ridiculous, it builds a false facade of strength on a weak foundation. How can you possibly know everything or worse pretend to know a plethora of topic without any help? I strive to learn everyday, but learning also entails asking questions. You grow by asking them too, it's not weakness, it is actually a strength. Coming from the culture that I was raised, asking someone about a topic I don't know is quite a challenging task. One great illustration of this is if you ask other races about their Filipino co-workers, they would say "Oh! he/she is a hard worker, I love her", it's because we Filipinos don't ask for help, we do everything on our own. We say we don't like to be tagged as "lazy" but what it really is is we feel dumb or weak when we admit that we actually need help. We overly pretend we can do all the task in front of us with little to no help. It is mixed bag of ego and cultural problem that is rooted within us that's why it's so difficult to unlearn. On the topic of asking questions, I had an encounter with a guy over the phone where I asked about wire…